Tuesday, June 5, 2018

Creating Art

I love to create art in real life and in second life. There is something that makes me feel good about when I see someone smile because I created something. Art can be very fulfilling even if you think your art is not worthy of seeing. It does not matter who sees it, what matters that you created it. Art relieves stress and it brings a meaning of mind and body working together.

So Pug, what shall we create today? 

Saturday, June 2, 2018


What does it mean to be pointless and feel that maybe everything you have done was not worth your time? We all go through this and we all deal with it in different ways.

The problem is that we hold on to too many things. We want to hold on to youth, money, material items and people. All these things keep us from what makes us happy and we forget to think because our minds are full with things.

We just have too much of everything. It is kind of a fear of letting it go because we do not know what is there.

There is nothing pointless, not really. What each individual does is what they do to survive. Yet, that may seem futile to others. Let them think whatever they want. We have to live our lives and not to live for others.

Tuesday, May 29, 2018

Rocky Horror Picture Show

This was a lot of fun and we had our winner "Brad Majors" AKA as Greg tonight here at the Club. Dandy was dressed as Rocky Horror - A Creation and Likka as Janet....damn it!

photo-bombed as always by Deb :)

We are thinking of some more themes for our upcoming Dandy & Likka Show....let us know if you have ideas....

Monday, May 28, 2018

Come fly away with me

who needs tampons 
and breath mints 
and safety nets
if you're there to cradle my fall?
i'd jump out of a perfectly good airplane
from thousands of feet in the sky
without a parachute
because i know you'll be there
at the bottom
with open arms

...well, not really and it would not be realistic to just jump out of a plane because who would catch me for sure? Exactly. I do want to go fly and escape and see the world and its magical lands filled with colors and aromas.

i watch the little red seat belt sign
flicker off 
the man next to me is asleep
he has a british accent 
and smells like hotel soap
my ears pop
and i look at the clouds
funny how clouds no longer seem
so solid when you get so close to them
(i guess people are like that, too)
a lady in a polyester red blazer
brings me crappy coffee and smiles
i don't think she wants to be here
i smile back
its just me 
hotel soap guy (now snoring loudly)
my notebook
and the clouds
this 53 minute flight
is much too short
and i don't want to come down

Ugh!!! Damn it I was just dreaming all of this up, but please do take me on some kind of trip. That's what you get when you nap in the middle of the day.
Happy Memorial Day!!!!

Friday, May 25, 2018


We so often blame women for being moody and bitchy and to all respect it is not always true. There is such a thing of male periods. The technical term is called IMS or irritable male syndrome. Men of course can get away with this all the time and they just call it being a man. I would say "men"struation is a constant flow of words that mean absolutely nothing because they are like a Motrin making you feel better for a few hours.

Don't say you love me if you don't Don't say that you care Don't say you want me if you won't Cause I don't think that's fair

My "duderus" cramps up every time I hear a lie out of you. So it is also said women in general become moody when they pass a certain age and enter a climacteric period of their life. Have you ever heard about grumpy old men? Exactly, they too experience that crossroad of the moment they realize they are "old". Men also lie about their age. Many will not admit to the "real" number that is especially true in Second Life. Isn't it called a liar? Or do men blame the changes of their body on this too? To me a liar is an informal storyteller and that is putting it in a sweet nice way. I could also say someone who's lost and in denial of all truthespecially their own!

Night and day is passing by I'm sitting here, and wondering why If this the way for you to say goodbye

So, I researched:

male climacteric
[′māl klə′mak·tə·rik]
A condition presumably due to loss of testicular function, associated with an elevated urinary excretion of gonadotropins and symptoms of loss of sexual desire and potency, hot flashes, and vasomotor instability.

Don’t think, “I am getting old” , “there is nothing I can do, etc.” BS. Start thinking in positive terms and realizing that there are hormone treatments, natural therapies, and mind over matter works, if you work at it! Just be honest, stop pretending...I am not willing to just accept the fact that men can blame their behaviors of cheating and lying to the changes in their bodies. 

Well I'm sad but, now I'm strong I'm gonna keepin' moving on And I'm not gonna let this break me down

And let me get this straight I am not bashing men here just the ones who are not honest. You know who you are because you are the ones who will come back and show me what kind of man you are.

A true gentleman will treasure his woman and he does not have the need to flirt with others that will "man"ufacture into mistrust.

I will get to those women ,who engage in coquetry with these weak men who say they are committed to their lady,another time. Flirkers are cheap!!!

Saturday, May 19, 2018

Foolishness or Wisdom?

Since the Royal wedding took place and is now behind us I am sure there will be many more after that. A wedding is for every woman the day she can be a princess. And yes, men will ask why over and over again. 

For the average woman, there is only one time in her life that she will wear a gown as beautiful as the one she chooses for her wedding day, even those of us in Second Life will treasure this moment.
Just to be that princess for the special day is important for us women. The other strong point is that you are "worth" it to be married. Even if you think oh well it is not that important and why got through all the fussing over a wedding. Do not be fooled by this. A wedding is no matter what the women say, their dream come true that they are the one.

Now, on the other hand waiting for that ring and question and you find out it will never come is the the utmost let down, and you will feel eventually that you are not his choice, that he is waiting for something better to come along.

Now you have a choice here, feel let down forever and just enjoy what it is OR let the fool go and find what he needs and be on with it. Foolishness is the opposite of wisdom. It is expressed in rushed or impulsive decisions and the lack of proper careful considerations. In foolishness we do not assess all relevant information or consider broader, long-term perspectives. Foolishness is more spontaneous and this is what the prevailing romantic ideology demands: act according to the promptings of your loving heart and nothing else is of importance.

Friday, May 18, 2018

The Avenue

Want to visit a romantic Hang-out and just dance with that special person? Look no further and stop by the Avenue.