Love is not a fairy tale, there are ups and downs and without that it would be just boring.
To find real love, you must first emphasize your true self. If you want someone to love you through your moments of imperfection, you must first be willing to do that for someone else. Be real with yourself, so you are ready for someone else's authenticity.
Give love a chance and just let it flow and enjoy the moment.
All you need is love. But a little chocolate now and then doesn't hurt.