When the real world is harsh..

There are days when the world around you is harsh and hard to cope with. Those are the days when I log into Second Life.

Today, July 13, 2024, marks the 23rd anniversary of my father's passing. I created my little cemetery here in Second Life at the Retreat because it reminds me of Germany when I lived across from the cemetery. Here I can honor and remember my loved ones and feel at peace.

The world out there is not always fair. People judge you, they may hate you and they may wish bad things upon you, those are the harsh realities of life. 

Despite your best efforts, not everyone will like you.
You can do everything right and still lose.

The world wasn't better when you were a kid, it just seemed that way because you were a kid.
You don’t have to stay friends with someone just because you have been friends for a long time.
Don't expect closure. 

BUT regardless of all of this happening, never lose yourself in the pity and sorrow of what others have done or the losses you have experienced. 

I come here to fuel up on peace when the real world is harsh and their words feel like bullets that graze my ear. I stand up and my spirit is still intact.

Never give up, keep going, and find your joy even when it seems hard. There is still joie de vivre in each one of us. Come to the Retreat and find yours.

May you rest in peace my dear father, you will never be forgotten for the courage and joy you gave me.