The truth is, many opposite-sex friendships are sustained because of a simmering attraction between two people. If circumstances were different, they could easily be sexual partners. And they know it. This underlying current of attraction makes talking, texting and spending time together as "just friends" all the more exciting. It has an erotic edge to it.Usually, your gut tells you in a way that the just friends' thing is a lie or at least a beginning of something for sure. We start out as friends and then it develops into more. There are really 2 kinds of men, the ones that fall for women because she is baiting him like an angler. And they forget about their partner or real friends. By the time they realize it the only friend they ever had will be long gone and they end up with nobody.
The second type is the one who loves playing games. He will turn you on and plays the perhaps-maybe game with you. Women always think they can change this kind of man, but let me tell you:
You cannot!
They continue to make you believe that you may have the smallest of a chance and then let you down not once but many times. He is called a Narcissist and to him, you are a toy. He always looks for a better toy and he always ends up with nothing at the end. People around him figure it out he just is a talker with nothing behind it.
Maybe the really rare men are those that actually look at you as a person they respect. These are super rare and when you discover one, keep him no matter what he looks like. Of course, all of this can be reversed to where the woman is the one who follows the bate or the one who plays the game. Women can be evil in many ways and have these narcissistic traits. Either way, it always fails.
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