Don't Sabotage your own happiness!

Playing a song of self-pity

He came on strong and seemed so into you. Then suddenly he just vanished. Poof! Gone. This is one of the most aggravating things. Things are going great. You enjoy each other’s company and look forward to talking again.  He seems to get you which feels great. While getting to know each other, you are having so much fun! Then he pulls away and you are left wondering what the heck happened. You examine every conversation looking for something you said or did wrong. You blame yourself even if you can’t find anything to point to that would cause this.

Trying to control a pumpkin is useless

Probably the most common reason why you may sabotage your own plans to be happy is that deep down you feel undeserving or unworthy of the good things that might happen to you. This is a very bad thing because you will never succeed in life if you feel you don’t deserve to be happy or successful.

The most important step you need to take is to face any fear or self doubt and go ahead and take action, positive action. Remember to be clear about what you want and break it down into easy manageable steps and take each one then see what happens. I am not saying that any of this is easy. It isn’t , it requires you to work on your attitude and your thinking and to change. But if you believe in yourself, you can do anything you want. Happiness will come if you expect it.

Take time to think about who you are – your personality, your background, what makes you tick?